Japan is renowned for its rich traditions, deep-rooted etiquette, and distinct cultural practices. While these qualities make the country an extraordinary place to visit, they can also make it easy for outsiders to unintentionally stand out. Whether it’s how you dress, how you speak, or how you behave in public, the differences are noticeable to locals. If you’re planning a trip and want to respectfully blend in, here are 13 things to keep in mind to avoid looking like a tourist in Japan.

1. Avoid Exposing Shoulders in Public

In Japan, modest dress is highly valued. Showing the collarbone or shoulders, particularly for women, is considered too revealing in many public settings. Although crop tops have become more acceptable among the younger crowd, tops that expose shoulders may draw unwanted attention. When visiting temples, traditional areas, or family-friendly attractions, opt for clothing that provides more coverage.

2. Posture Matters—Stand Tall

Japanese people generally pay close attention to their posture. It’s part of their culture to stand and sit upright, which reflects discipline and self-respect. Tourists often slouch or adopt relaxed postures that locals quickly identify. Maintaining good posture is not only respectful, it’s also a small detail that helps you blend in seamlessly.

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3. Skip the Strong Perfum

Scent is a big deal in Japan. Many locals are highly sensitive to fragrances, and wearing strong perfume or cologne can be perceived as overwhelming or even disrespectful. In fact, many Japanese beauty products focus on a clean, fresh scent rather than floral or musky tones. The safest option is to go fragrance-free or choose a very light, clean-smelling scent.

4. Cover Up Tattoos in Public Spaces

While tattoos are becoming more accepted among Japanese youth, they’re still widely associated with organized crime in traditional circles. If you have visible tattoos, be aware that many public places like gyms, spas, hot springs (onsen), and swimming pools may deny entry unless you cover them. Wearing long sleeves or using tattoo cover patches can help you avoid uncomfortable situations.

5. Use a Bow Instead of Handshakes or Hugs

In Japan, personal space is sacred. Hugging, patting someone on the back, or extended handshakes can come off as intrusive. The most respectful way to greet someone is with a bow. Handshakes are acceptable in some formal settings, especially if initiated by a Japanese person, but don’t assume it’s the norm. Avoid initiating physical contact unless invited to do so.

6. Don’t Pick Up Lost Items on the Street

It might seem courteous to pick up something that someone has dropped, but in Japan, it’s usually better to leave it alone. Locals believe it’s not appropriate to handle someone else’s property. If you must intervene, place the item somewhere more visible or take it to a nearby police station. Randomly picking up items, even with good intentions, can make others uncomfortable.

7. It’s Not Customary to Offer Your Seat

In many places, offering your seat to an older person is considered polite. In Japan, however, it can be taken the wrong way. Offering a seat might unintentionally highlight someone’s age or physical limitations, which can feel insulting. Instead, use designated priority seating areas if available and let people choose whether to sit or stand on their own.

8. Avoid Eating While Walking

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Eating on the go is not a common sight in Japan. While it’s not strictly forbidden, it is generally discouraged—especially in crowded or formal places. Locals value cleanliness and order, and there’s concern about whether trash will be properly disposed of. If you buy food from a street vendor or convenience store, it’s customary to eat near the shop or in a designated eating area.

9. Let the Taxi Driver Open the Door

One common misstep tourists make is opening taxi doors themselves. In Japan, most taxi doors open and close automatically, controlled by the driver. You don’t need to touch the handle. When flagging a cab, raise your hand vertically rather than waving it horizontally, which is more common in Western countries.

10. Silence Isn’t Ideal in Restaurants

In many Western countries, eating in quiet is considered polite, but in Japan, complete silence during a meal can be uncomfortable. Restaurants often play background music or keep a TV on to avoid awkward silence. That said, loud conversations are still frowned upon, so aim for a moderate volume and relaxed atmosphere.

11. Keep Your Voice Down in Public

Being too loud is one of the quickest ways to stand out. Japanese people generally speak in soft tones, especially in public places like trains, buses, and waiting areas. Talking on the phone while using public transport is strongly discouraged. If you absolutely need to take a call, do so discreetly or step outside when possible.

12. Be Cautious With Interactions Between Genders

Social interactions between men and women can be more conservative in Japan, particularly in public settings. Overt friendliness or flirtatious behavior may be misunderstood. Even adult gatherings often separate by gender naturally, and friendly gestures across genders may be seen as inappropriate or overly forward. Avoid overly casual or physical gestures when meeting someone of the opposite sex.

13. Don’t Leave Tips

Tipping is not practiced in Japan and can even be considered rude. Service workers, from restaurant servers to taxi drivers, are trained to provide excellent service as part of their role. Leaving extra money may imply that the employee is not paid well enough or that they expect more than their wage. If you want to express appreciation, a verbal thank you or a polite bow is more appropriate.

Final Thoughts

Blending into Japanese society isn’t about pretending to be someone you’re not—it’s about showing respect. By learning and practicing even a few of these cultural habits, you’ll not only avoid unwanted attention but also earn the appreciation of locals. Whether it’s the way you dress, speak, or carry yourself, small adjustments can make a big difference in your travel experience.